One of the most impactful experiences in my life was being punched severely after a basketball game by one of my own teammates who blamed me for our loss. Now mind you that this was not a high stakes game. There was no money on the table. We were not in the final game ofContinueContinue reading “How to Lose Like A Winner”
Category Archives: Trust
Do the INR (Individual Narrative Responsibility) Work
How often do you reflect on how much the stories you tell yourself impact your life? Personally, I think about it everyday. Because since I was a child, I have always been keenly aware of narrative dynamics. Consciously or unconsciously we all perceive ourselves as characters in a narrative. And how we locate ourselves inContinueContinue reading “Do the INR (Individual Narrative Responsibility) Work”
Recreating With Aloha in Mind and Heart
When most people hear the word Aloha, they think that it simply means hello and farewell. But, more precisely, it means “the presence of the Breath” i.e. The Breath of Life. And as some of my friends who are of the land of Hawaii have shared with me, it is akin to expressing “I loveContinueContinue reading “Recreating With Aloha in Mind and Heart”
When Trust Meets Empowerment
One of the discoveries I’ve made in my work with people from as diverse sectors as the military to ministry is the role that trust and empowerment play in creating the successful working relationships necessary to solve complex problems. And yet, very little is taught about these specific relational phenomena. Have you ever taken aContinueContinue reading “When Trust Meets Empowerment”
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